Confucius quotes：先核对《论语》出处，再分享孔子名言

子曰，学而时习之，不亦说乎。有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎。人不知而不愠，不亦君子乎。

1. The Master said, "Is it not pleasant to learn with a constant perseverance and application? 2. "Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? 3. "Is he not a man of complete virtue, who feels no discomposure though men may take no note of him?"

不要只摘“有朋自远方来”；本章把学习、朋友与不被理解时的平静连在一起。

子曰，由，诲女知之乎，知之为知之，不知为不知，是知也。

The Master said, "Yu, shall I teach you what knowledge is? When you know a thing, to hold that you know it; and when you do not know a thing, to allow that you do not know it;—this is knowledge."

关于知识边界的名言，核心是如实承认知道与不知道。

子曰，见贤思齐焉，见不贤而内自省也。

The Master said, "When we see men of worth, we should think of equalling them; when we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves."

见到正反榜样都回到自省，避免只把它理解成外部竞争。

子曰，三人行，必有我师焉，择其善者而从之，其不善者而改之。

The Master said, "When I walk along with two others, they may serve me as my teachers. I will select their good qualities and follow them, their bad qualities and avoid them."

完整句同时要求学习善者和改正自己，后半句不可省。

子曰，三军可夺师也，匹夫不可夺志也。

The Master said, "The commander of the forces of a large state may be carried off, but the will of even a common man cannot be taken from him."

“匹夫不可夺志”谈意志不可被外力直接剥夺，并非否认处境压力。

子贡问曰，有一言，而可以终身行之者乎。子曰，其恕乎，己所不欲，勿施于人。

Tsze-kung asked, saying, "Is there one word which may serve as a rule of practice for all one's life?" The Master said, "Is not reciprocity such a word? What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others."

以“恕”统摄终身实践，是“己所不欲”的完整问答出处之一。

子曰，君子和而不同，小人同而不和。

The Master said, "The superior man is affable, but not adulatory; the mean man is adulatory, but not affable."

和谐不要求取消差异；迎合相同也未必产生真正协调。

子曰，君子求诸己，小人求诸人。

The Master said, "What the superior man seeks, is in himself. What the mean man seeks, is in others."

“君子求诸己”把道德要求首先放在自己，而不是把所有责任推给他人。